When it
comes to food (that is to say: Chinese food, and how it is consumed and, heaven
forbid, Chinese table manners) there isn’t much that can shock me anymore.
I can
successfully navigate the dinner table with only two small sticks in my hand. I
know how to eat which type of food and what is considered a specialty or
delicacy. I am able to slurp soup or tea just as noisily as a Chinese person,
if I so choose. I made my peace with all the other, to our eyes initially at
least weird and at most (borderline) disgusting eating habits. And although I
will never be able to bring myself to do it, I’m not even appalled anymore at
all the spitting that occurs and all the bones and little pieces of food that
are all over the place after a meal.
There is
one thing, though, that I will (hopefully) never grow accustomed to. The
terrible waste of food.
I’d
completely forgotten how much that used to annoy and upset me. That’s probably
because this was one of the things that Pearl and Kim changed at their place
once they had noticed how much it bothered me.
The
attitude in China in regard to that issue is “What’s the big deal?”, but, coming from a culture where we are taught not to throw away food to the
best of our abilities (and this is one of the issues where I was heavily
influenced by my parents, because I don’t remember many incidents where food
was thrown away at home, much less on that large a scale), it never ceases to shock me.
It may not
sound that impressive or terrible when you are reading this, but today, I
witnessed one day’s ration of perfectly good rice (for 10 people) being thrown
away because the chef changed his mind about his plans for lunch at the last minute.
Maybe it is
a first world problem, but that waste of food hurt a little bit.